1. What is more important to you: your relationship with yourself or your relationship with those who are close to you?
Wow, that is a good one. It should probably be my relationship with myself because we need to accept ourselves the way we are before we can have a truly good relationship with someone else. But for me my relationship with those close to me is more important. Why? Well, I think because I want those close to me to be happy and it is important to me that our relationship stay close and happy.
2. Which of the above do you tend to have the least problem cultivating?
I believe I have the least problem cultivating my relationships with those close to me. I get along well with just about everyone and I am a giver, not a taker and that seems to be what works for me in relationships.
3. Something goes wrong in your life. Of the people you are most likely to turn to, are they the same gender as you or the opposite?
Most of the people I would turn to are the same gender. I only have one really good male friend outside of my husband.
4. Something goes wrong in a close friend’s life and you’re the person that friend chooses to call first. Is that person likely to be the same gender as you or the opposite?
Considering most of my friends are women then it would be the same gender.
5. Take the quiz: What Makes You a Good Friend?
You Are a Good Friend Because You're Supportive
You are almost like a life coach for your best friends.
You give them help when they need it... but you also know when to give them a push.
People tend to rely on you for moral support and advice.
You've probably always been mature for your age, so this is a role that's you're comfortable with.
A friend like you is one of the rarest kinds.
You are both a good mentor and companion.
Your friends need you most when: They are confused or worried
You really can't be friends with: Someone who only wants to complain
Your friendship quote: "The only way to have a friend is to be one."
6. What single trait listed in the response to question #5 would your closest friend most agree with?People tend to rely on you for moral support and advice.